For parents & teens
Questions for parents and teens
Teenagers open up when they are not being monitored. Each of you answers on your own, the reveal only happens when both are in, and the teen can leave at any time. It is connection, not control.
Free for the core experience. Answers stay private until you've both shared.
A few of the questions
From the daily pool and the first-questions pack for this kind of relationship. You each answer on your own; the reveal happens when both are in.
Question 1
“What's something you wish I'd ask you about more?”
Question 2
“What's a rule at home that feels fair, and one that doesn't?”
Question 3
“What's a way I could react better when you tell me something hard?”
Question 4
“What's something you're good at that you don't think I notice?”
Question 5
“What do you want me to do when you're quiet: ask, wait, or just be nearby?”
Question 6
“What's a way I could show I trust you?”
From the library: Teens, trust and the case against surveillance
Common questions
Can a parent see the teen's answers early?
No. The same rule applies to everyone: an answer is hidden until both people have answered. There is no parent override, by design.
What ages is this for?
Teens 13 and up. Verifiable parental consent for under-13s is not yet supported.
Can they see my answer before I see theirs?
No. Each of you answers in private, and neither answer is shown until both are in. That rule is enforced in the database, not just the app, so there is no way to peek.
Is it free?
Yes. Every relationship type, the first questions, a new question each day, reveals, discussion, quizzes and challenges are free. An optional Premium plan adds AI reflections, and one plan covers both people.
Do we both need the app?
You both need an account, but it is a website that works on any phone or laptop. Send one link; they sign in and you are connected.
Start with one question.
Create the connection, send the link, and your first questions unlock the moment they join.
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