For family
Questions to ask your parents and family
For a parent and adult child, cousins, in-laws, or anyone you call family: questions that get past logistics and into the stories and feelings that usually go unsaid.
Free for the core experience. Answers stay private until you've both shared.
A few of the questions
From the daily pool and the first-questions pack for this kind of relationship. You each answer on your own; the reveal happens when both are in.
Question 1
“What's a family story you'd want the next generation to know?”
Question 2
“What's a way our family is different from how it looks from the outside?”
Question 3
“What's something you're proud of in me that you don't say enough?”
Question 4
“What's a topic that's hard to bring up in our family, and what would help?”
Question 5
“What's a way we could make visits feel easier?”
Question 6
“What's a thing you've never thanked me for?”
From the library: Sharing the care of an aging parent
Common questions
Is this for a parent and a teenager?
There is a separate parent and teen track, built trust-first: either person can leave at any time, and nothing is ever shown to one side only.
Can they see my answer before I see theirs?
No. Each of you answers in private, and neither answer is shown until both are in. That rule is enforced in the database, not just the app, so there is no way to peek.
Is it free?
Yes. Every relationship type, the first questions, a new question each day, reveals, discussion, quizzes and challenges are free. An optional Premium plan adds AI reflections, and one plan covers both people.
Do we both need the app?
You both need an account, but it is a website that works on any phone or laptop. Send one link; they sign in and you are connected.
Start with one question.
Create the connection, send the link, and your first questions unlock the moment they join.
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