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Questions to ask family

Questions family members answer when they start. Private answers, shared only when you've both responded.

Question 1
“What's a family memory you treasure?”
Question 2
“What tradition do you hope we keep?”
Question 3
“What's something about you that you wish I understood better?”
Question 4
“When do you feel most appreciated by me?”
Question 5
“What's a value you hope our family stands for?”
Question 6
“What's something you're proud of right now?”
Question 7
“What do you need more of from me?”
Question 8
“How do you prefer we work through disagreements?”
Question 9
“What's a hope you have for the coming year?”
Question 10
“What's a way our family could support each other better?”
Question 11
“What's a story about our family you love retelling?”
Question 12
“What's something you'd like us to do together more often?”
Question 13
“What's a role you played in our family growing up that you'd like to step out of?”
Question 14
“What's something our family doesn't talk about that you wish we could?”
Question 15
“When you're going through something hard, do you want me to check in, give space, or just show up?”

Ask these the honest way. You each answer in private, and neither of you sees the other's answers until you've both shared.

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Common questions

Can they see my answer before I've shared mine?

No. Each of you answers in private, and neither answer is shown until both are in. That rule is enforced in the database, not just the app.

Are safety features free?

Yes. Safety resources are always free and never paywalled.

What does Premium cost?

Premium is $18/mo and optional. Free covers up to 3 connections, with the questions, mutual reveal, and Safety resources included.