For every relationship that matters
Closer, on purpose.
Answer thoughtful questions in private. Reveal together — only when you've both shared. One mutual reveal is enough to feel the difference: honesty without peeking, built into how the product works, not just promised in the app.
Free for the core experience. Safety always free. Premium ($18/mo) is optional for Blueprint and digests.
Today's question
“When do you feel most appreciated by me?”
You
When you notice the small stuff — like Tuesday, when you just said “I saw how hard that was.”
Them
Or browse questions to ask — your partner, a friend, or family.
How it works
Three small habits. One closer relationship.
Invite your person
One link, one tap. Partner, friend, sibling, parent, teammate — every connection gets its own private space.
Answer in private
A daily question and deeper packs, written for your kind of relationship. Designed so neither of you can peek early — built into the product, not just promised.
Reveal together
Both answered? Everything unlocks side by side, with a place to talk about it. That moment is the whole point.
Grounded in research
Questions are informed by research traditions like Gottman and attachment theory — and we rate evidence strength in the library so weaker ideas stay honest.
Cradle to grave
Optional packs and library reads for seasons most apps skip — new love, new parents, teens, caregiving, grief.
Streaks that forgive
A daily rhythm without guilt mechanics. Miss yesterday? Catch up today and the streak holds. Miss longer and it resets gently.
Private by architecture
The reveal rule is built into how the product works — designed so answers stay private until both share. Your words are yours to export or erase.
A library worth reading
Short, evidence-rated reads — the four horsemen, bids for connection, grieving differently — free where it matters most.
Safety, never paywalled
Crisis resources are free for everyone, always free and easy to reach, with a quick-exit button when privacy matters.
The whole arc
Built for seasons, not just sparks
New love
start with 20 questions
New parents
protect the friendship
Growing teens
trust, not surveillance
Caring for parents
share the load
Grief & endings
remember together
Good questions
Before you start
Can the other person see my answer before I share mine?
No — and it's not just a promise in the app. The rule that hides an answer until you've both responded is built into how the product works, designed so answers stay private until you've both shared. You answer first, then you both see everything at once.
Is this therapy?
No. Relationship Copilot offers relationship-wellness and coaching-style prompts grounded in research, but it isn't therapy, counseling, or medical advice, and it never diagnoses. If you're in crisis, our Safety page lists free, confidential support — always free and easy to reach.
What happens to what I write — and what does the AI see?
Your words are yours: you can export everything as JSON or delete your account anytime. We don't sell your data. Optional AI features strip names, emails, and phone numbers from the relevant answers before they leave our systems. Production AI stays off until a no-training agreement with the provider is in place.
Is it really free?
The core experience — every relationship type, the onboarding questions, daily prompts, reveals, discussions, and the core library — is free. Premium ($18/mo) adds the AI Blueprint and weekly digests. Safety resources are never behind the paywall.
Is it only for couples?
No. It's built for the whole arc of a relationship — romantic partners, friends, family, siblings, coworkers, mentors, and a trust-first parent–teen track. Each connection gets its own private space.
What if I'm in an unsafe relationship?
Safety comes first and free. When answers look like they may involve harm, we surface support resources (and withhold optional AI reflections). There's a quick-exit button on the Safety page, and we never notify the other person when you view resources or leave a connection.
Who built this?
Relationship Copilot is an independent product founded by Patrick Novak in Vancouver. Learn more on our About page.
The people you love are one question away.
Start free. Invite one person. See what you learn about each other by Friday.