For partners
Questions for couples and partners
Dating, married, or somewhere in between: a question a day you each answer on your own, then read side by side. It is the easiest way to keep learning about each other.
Free for the core experience. Answers stay private until you've both shared.
A few of the questions
From the daily pool and the first-questions pack for this kind of relationship. You each answer on your own; the reveal happens when both are in.
Question 1
“What's one thing I did this week that made you feel loved?”
Question 2
“What's stressing you right now that I might not fully see?”
Question 3
“What's a small ritual of ours you'd miss if it disappeared?”
Question 4
“What do you need after a bad day: space, talk, touch, or distraction?”
Question 5
“When you picture us in five years, what's one scene you see?”
Question 6
“What's a conversation we keep postponing?”
From the library: Bids for connection: the small moments that matter
Common questions
Is this couples therapy?
No. It is a daily habit for staying close, informed by research like the Gottman work on friendship and bids. It never diagnoses, and the Safety page is always free if you need real support.
Can they see my answer before I see theirs?
No. Each of you answers in private, and neither answer is shown until both are in. That rule is enforced in the database, not just the app, so there is no way to peek.
Is it free?
Yes. Every relationship type, the first questions, a new question each day, reveals, discussion, quizzes and challenges are free. An optional Premium plan adds AI reflections, and one plan covers both people.
Do we both need the app?
You both need an account, but it is a website that works on any phone or laptop. Send one link; they sign in and you are connected.
Start with one question.
Create the connection, send the link, and your first questions unlock the moment they join.
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