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Questions to ask your partner

Questions couples answer when they start. Use them here as a list, or start a connection and answer each one in private.

Question 1
“What first drew you to me, and has that changed?”
Question 2
“What does a perfect, ordinary day together look like to you?”
Question 3
“When do you feel most loved by me?”
Question 4
“What's a dream you have that you haven't fully shared with me?”
Question 5
“What does trust look like to you in a relationship?”
Question 6
“How do you most like to be comforted when you're upset?”
Question 7
“What's something you're proud of that you wish I noticed more?”
Question 8
“What did love look like in the home you grew up in?”
Question 9
“What's a fear you have about us, even a small one?”
Question 10
“When you picture us in five years, what do you hope is true?”
Question 11
“How do you prefer to handle disagreements between us?”
Question 12
“What's a ritual or tradition you'd love for us to keep?”
Question 13
“What makes you feel respected by me?”
Question 14
“On a scale of 1-10, how connected do you feel to me right now?”
Question 15
“What's something I do that you appreciate but rarely say out loud?”

Ask these the honest way. You each answer in private, and neither of you sees the other's answers until you've both shared.

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Common questions

Can they see my answer before I've shared mine?

No. Each of you answers in private, and neither answer is shown until both are in. That rule is enforced in the database, not just the app.

Are safety features free?

Yes. Safety resources are always free and never paywalled.

What does Premium cost?

Premium is $18/mo and optional. Free covers up to 3 connections, with the questions, mutual reveal, and Safety resources included.