For siblings
Questions to ask your brother or sister
Siblings share a childhood and often not much else as adults. These questions help you meet each other as the people you are now, one honest answer at a time.
Free for the core experience. Answers stay private until you've both shared.
A few of the questions
From the daily pool and the first-questions pack for this kind of relationship. You each answer on your own; the reveal happens when both are in.
Question 1
“What's your favorite memory of us as kids?”
Question 2
“What role did you feel you played in our family growing up?”
Question 3
“What's something about your life now that I probably don't know much about?”
Question 4
“What's a grudge, small or big, that you'd be willing to drop?”
Question 5
“Is there anything about our parents you've been carrying alone?”
Question 6
“What's a tradition we should keep alive after our parents are gone?”
From the library: Adult siblings: meeting again as grown-ups
Common questions
What if we're not close?
Start with the first 20 questions. They are written for siblings who have drifted, and both of you answer before anything is shown, so nobody has to go first.
Can they see my answer before I see theirs?
No. Each of you answers in private, and neither answer is shown until both are in. That rule is enforced in the database, not just the app, so there is no way to peek.
Is it free?
Yes. Every relationship type, the first questions, a new question each day, reveals, discussion, quizzes and challenges are free. An optional Premium plan adds AI reflections, and one plan covers both people.
Do we both need the app?
You both need an account, but it is a website that works on any phone or laptop. Send one link; they sign in and you are connected.
Start with one question.
Create the connection, send the link, and your first questions unlock the moment they join.
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