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Questions to ask a friend

Questions friends answer when they start. Use them here as a list, or start a connection and reveal together.

  1. Question 1

    “What's a moment our friendship really clicked for you?”

  2. Question 2

    “What do you value most in a friend?”

  3. Question 3

    “What's something you're going through right now that you'd want a friend to ask about?”

  4. Question 4

    “When you're stressed, do you prefer space, distraction, or someone to listen?”

  5. Question 5

    “What's a goal you're chasing this year?”

  6. Question 6

    “What's a part of your life you don't talk about much?”

  7. Question 7

    “How do you like to be supported when things go wrong?”

  8. Question 8

    “What's the best advice you've ever gotten?”

  9. Question 9

    “What's something you've changed your mind about recently?”

  10. Question 10

    “How often would you ideally want to catch up?”

  11. Question 11

    “What's a small thing that always makes your day better?”

  12. Question 12

    “What do you wish more people understood about you?”

  13. Question 13

    “What's a risk you're glad you took?”

  14. Question 14

    “On a scale of 1-10, how supported do you feel in your life right now?”

  15. Question 15

    “What's something you'd love a friend to do with you?”

Ask these the honest way. You each answer in private, and neither of you sees the other's answers until you've both shared.

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Common questions

Can they see my answer before I've shared mine?

No. Each of you answers in private, and neither answer is shown until both are in. That rule is enforced in the database, not just the app.

Are safety features free?

Yes. Safety resources are always free and never paywalled.

What does Premium cost?

Premium is $18/mo and optional. Free covers up to 3 connections, with the questions, mutual reveal, and Safety resources included.

Also see questions for a friend and the full questions hub.